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    Default They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    Hope this hasn't been covered before , sorry if it has, but has anyone who, like me, lives alone and has relatives ever considered what the consequences of "passing on" by accident or natural causes might have on the memory of relatives that find you . Even if someone else , not your immediate family finds you , it's gonna be your good old life long relatives that end up coming round to your gaff sooner or later and finds all your gear . I'de hate to think that I would be remembered as a "perv" instead of the ...err .. the great guy that I am !
    Anyone else ever been bothered by this

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    Yes. I will be 79 Yrs. old in a couple of weeks, and am a widower living alone. I fully expect that one day they will find me in my bed in rubber pajamas between rubber sheets. If they have a problem with that, too bad. It is their problem, not mine. At that point, what do I care?

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    Hallo,

    Have a look at my reply in this thread. http://www.rubberist.net/forums/showthread.php?t=8851

    I think that it is relevant also for your inquire.

    Cheers
    L8X

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    Quote Originally spoken by crootisious
    Anyone else ever been bothered by this
    Yes, because there's an unhappy track record of various perves being exposed and then covered up by their families - look at the Gwenmedia story for a prime example of this: it's almost as if the families view that person's perversion as their fault, and want it hidden from the world.

    I am slowly thinking about just how much perv gear and porn and memorabilia I will be lugging about when I am old(er) and grey(er); I think I am going to make it the subject of a separate bequest.

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    There are already concerns as what to do if I croak while fully rubbered up in my sleep, then what to do with all my latex gear, and I have a s#*^+t load of it.

    I suppose I will squirm in my grave when all of it is dumped in the trash bin," my beloved latex", I would be more upset at what happens to it than what people think of me.

    What I need is a benificiary to enjoy my gear, so it depends on who is nice to me,

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    I had a by-pass done a couple of years ago and had though of what if something went worng. So told one of my douthers of my fetish not going into to much detail. Told her I did'nt want her and outhers to find out on ther own and think bad of me. Worked out very well she was very understanding and we have spoke about it one other time. It has made me feel a lot beter about myself.

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    Default Re: They'de find your rubbergear....Oh no!

    Quote Originally spoken by richcom610
    Told her I did'nt want her and outhers to find out on ther own and think bad of me. Worked out very well she was very understanding and we have spoke about it one other time.
    See? There you go, this just confirms what I wrote recently (see link in my previous post below).
    If you have good and warm relations with people nearby you, they will not change their mind suddenly, as many years of good experience and relation is hard to rock. Even by latex clothing. It is all about who you are and have been in many years or perhaps even a lifetime that matters.

    I even told to my daughters recently: Do not throw my rubber stuff out if something should happen to me, but sell it on e-bay and get a fortune! And they found it as a sound idea! They even know how to handle it so it would not get damaged. Are they themselves interested in rubber? Hell no, it does not occupies their minds. Did they became tolerant persons over the years? Hell yes, it is not only the rubber, but many other oddities and minorities of all kind that the world is full of and they know that as long it is not harmful to others or criminal, there is no need to sit on high horse and look down on such interests or lifestyles.

    OK, I am deviating from the point of this thread, I think I got carried away for a moment.

    L8X

    "Take control of the situation before the situation takes control of you."

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    Default Re: Bury you in your rubber?

    I am still alive and kicking!

    Therefore I am not so happy, whoever got the idea, that the threads regarding the relations to your nearest family while one is still very much alive or even very young have been merged with this post mortem subject.

    I do not see that they belong together in the same thread as they deal with two completely different situations and stages in one's life.

    There may be some links between those two in few replies, however they were not the main and ultimate goal in the replies (ref. my last one) it was merely more as an illustration. In my case when I told my daughters that they should sell my rubber items on e-bay and get "rich" if something happened to me, it was more like a funny comment with a serious undertone when they saw a big pile of our rubber clothing to be packed for vacation.

    In my opinion these threads about "what/if they find my rubber" or "my mom just find out", etc. has now been buried in this post mortem situation discussion, which I disagree with.

    L8X

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    Default Re: Bury you in your rubber?

    Gord our situations maybe so different in that , my whole bedroom is geared to my love of latex, I have more gear in my wardrobe of rubber than vanilla clothes.

    So although it may be embarrising to my family, most of my freinds and fam know about my rubber , as well as a whole room dedicated to making rubber gear.

    Now poping off suddenly is unlikely, and hope to at least have the chance torequest someone to come and pick the stuff up, for further use by someone who will apreciate it.

    Those of us that are alone, why not leave a diary explaining their rubber love in a promonent place for any one to find, explaining your reasons for liking rubber, thus every one will understand and no confusion as to your actions.

    Yes I would like to be burried in rubber but my wish is unlikely to happen.

    Especially if I am lying there for every one to have a last look, and I have my favourite hood on,
    Last edited by Spirit; 2006-Jul-24 at 15:28.

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    Default Re: Bury you in your rubber?

    You know I ws thinking about this this very evening. At present none of my family know about my love for latex, but I think I would like to be buried fully enclosed in my gasmask set, catsuit, gloves and socks -at least I would die happy! But howto arrange it - a letter of wishes, or perhaps let them find my stuff with a note about what I want?

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